The line shouldn't be drawn through sexuality, but rather through individual ability and effort.

Hear, hear! Unfortunately, not everyone thinks that way - especially traditional and religious families/friends like mine.(Though not all religious/traditional people are like that)

I learnt to never begin a sentence with: "Lets say that I'm a lesbian-" when debating about topics such as this one. Their reactions were... explosive. But then again, these are the same people that told me that I'm going to a special hell for reading Satan!Harry Potter.