I've reposted this to both my lj and to wish_list, sure hope that it helps, sweetie.

Have you considered getting in touch with copperbadge for him to make your notice about your friend part of his Radio Free Monday post? Sam has a huge friend's list and it would really help get the word out to maybe help your friends more. Sam's a great guy, I know he'd want to help. :)

Good luck!

*hugs*